Blogroll

Should I We Move Away From Our Alcoholic Adult Children?

Question by bill d: Should I we move away from our alcoholic adult children?
We love our kids but they are alcoholics and ruining their lives. It hurts too much to keep watching it, we know we can’t do anything about it, and it is starting to destroy our lives. As much as we love them, we feel like we need to get away from them.

Best answer:

Answer by ?
YES, YES, YES…..the sooner the better too……..YOu must have supported them some how too….if they are ruining your lives…..you can love them, just stop the process of enablement that you have been providing to them…..move somewhere warm, and enjoy the piece and quiet

Answer by casey o
You need to do what is best for you. You shouldn’t have to move but if it comes to that then you you should do it. There is nothing you can do for someone who doesn’t want help. They need to hit bottom and want help, until then there is no saving them. Its ok to move, you aren’t doing anything wrong by doing that.